Money is about emotions. People often use money to buy something that is missing in their lives.
It could be they are missing love, self-esteem or security. Most of the time, money doesnâ€™t cure what really ails them. The ailment remains, but they wind up losing their money too.
People need help in finding out where they want to go and how to get there.
My solution is simple. Find advisors who have worked with more money than you have. If you win $100 million in the lottery, find advisors who have worked with $150 million.
Getting people to advisors can be complicated.
There is a great disconnect in the financial world.
A comprehensive financial capability study by The FINRA Investor Education Foundation said that 67 percent of Americans rated their own financial knowledge as â€œvery high.â€
This is a primary reason that people blow through their money so quickly.Â They donâ€™t know what they are doing but are convinced that they do.
By the time they figure out their lack of knowledge, they are broke.
The second thing that the FINRA study noted is that only 28 percent of them â€œwould trust financial professionals and accept what they recommend.â€ It then said that 51 percent of people agreed with the statement, â€œfinancial professionals are too expensive for me.â€
InÂ short,Â people donâ€™t trust financial professionals, donâ€™t want to pay for a financial professional and think they know what they are doing already.
The financial professionals know there are people who really need help but they often do a poor job in marketing their services.
People need help. From somebody.
Going back to the FINRA study, it said that 20 percent of the population spends more than their income. Sixty-two percent did not compare features when getting a credit card. Fifty-eight percent of non-retirees have not tried to calculate how much they will need for retirement. Forty-five percent of retirees didnâ€™t try to figure out how much they would need before retiring.
The dueling statistics remind me of the Steve Goodman song, â€œBanana Republic,â€ which was a hit for Jimmy Buffett. A line in the song says, â€œyou know that you cannot trust them, they know they canâ€™t trust you.â€
I found a great mechanic by asking people who loved cars which mechanic they used. The referral method works in any kind of situation.
The best way to find a financial advisor is to ask someone with lots of money to recommend one.
I tell lottery winners that they should consult with an attorney before doing anything else. That is good advice for most people. Lawyers can set the foundation for good financial and estate planning.
As much as people disconnect with financial professionals, it is even worse with attorneys.
Every year since 1991, the Gallup Organization has polled Americans on which profession they consider the most honest and ethical. Lawyers always run near the bottom, ahead of lobbyists, car salespeople and members of Congress, but behind reporters, bankers and auto mechanics.
Lawyers can help you with business disputes and tax questions. They can make sure your business and real estate purchases are set up correctly. Lawyers can help you plan what happens to you or your family if you should suddenly die or become disabled. And, even more importantly, they can make sure those plans are carried out. Lawyers can help if you are in an accident.
Iâ€™ve watched people make serious life decisions without using lawyers. That usually doesnâ€™t work well. Iâ€™ve seen people pay large chunks in taxesÂ because they didnâ€™t ask a lawyer about a transaction. Iâ€™ve seen property disputes arise, simply because people didnâ€™t use attorneys to draw up proper deeds, leases and agreements.
Iâ€™ve seen people get burned because they drew up business agreements without an attorney to help them. Iâ€™ve watched extremely wealthy people lose everything because they co-signed or guaranteed loans and didnâ€™t ask an attorney to guide them through the pitfalls.
Arkansas football coach John L. Smith recently filed bankruptcy because of his involvement in real estate deals gone bad. I suspect that he did not understand how an attorney could have minimized his risk.
Most of us need someone to double check decisions and keep us from making serious mistakes. That is the thing that lawyers do well.
People need advisors who understand their situation. Finding one that has worked with more money than what you have is a good place to start.
Don McNay,Â CLU, ChFC, MSFS, CSSC is a bestselling author andÂ expert on what to do when you win the lottery. His latest book, Â â€œLife Lessons Learned From The Lottery,â€ will be available on Kindle on Nov. 10.